To think that he should apologise?

[LootTheRoom]

Today at around 6PM I was breastfeeding my DS. I was starving but hadn't had time to start cooking dinner. DH walked past and I asked him if he could put the chicken in the oven (this literally involved taking it out of the packet and putting it in the oven).
He said no because he 'couldn't be arsed' I then started crying because I felt he was being selfish. He stormed out, slammed the door and went and played games on his computer while I continued to feed our son.
My husband has not apologised. He said I was being unreasonable and that he didn't want to 'give into all my demands.' I explained I was just asking for help and I felt the way he spoke to me was aggressive. It's also not as though he was in the middle of anything important and it would have taken him all of 5 minutes to put the chicken in the oven. We are now not speaking which seems completely ridiculous but he will not admit to any wrongdoing and is making out that I am the one with the problem.

[HattiesBackpack]

Read your post back to yourself and try to see what you've just described through your parents/friends eyes. What do you think they would say?

[MeriReu]

He's being a right piece of work.
How unnecessary to say he shouldn't 'give in to all your demands'!
It's a bloody chicken

Ignore him OP, hope you're ok! Don't let it bother you.

Childish but next time he asks you for something just say you 'can't be arsed' like he did

[lookatyourwatchnow]

What an absolute tosser. Does he usually behave like that?

[WhoWants2Know]

What an arsehole.

[Nanny0gg]

Demands?

I assume the meal was for him as well?

I hope you leave him hungry next time.

Does he behave like this often?

[GhoulsFold]

"he didn't want to 'give into all my demands.'"

Because you asked him to put a chicken in the oven while you fed the baby?!

Christ. What a grade A wanker.

He'd be cooking his own dinner for the foreseeable until he apologised. YADNBU

[WhoWants2Know]

And really, can you picture yourself responding that way to anyone who asks for your help? If he can't even be decent then why keep him around?

[LagunaBubbles]

Has he always been like this?

[Ttbb]

Have you by an chance experienced a freaky Friday situation where your husband's body has been possessed by a moody teenager?

[NoKidsTwoCats]

Yes, it sounds like he's being an arse. But...

Being devil's advocate...

The fact you started crying and the fact he said 'all' your demands: I'm assuming there's some context or background behind all this and this isn't isolated?

[Calvinlookingforhobbs]

I will go first.. LTB.

[Justanothernameonthepage]

Hoping you start not giving into his demands. Starting with his demand to have you second guessing yourself.
But is there anyone you can go and stay with who will help look after you for a couple of days while you think through how you want the next couple of years to pan out?

[Butterymuffin]

What a dick. Is this how he usually behaves?

At any rate, you can now stop doing anything you do for him, whether that's cooking, laundry, whatever, and when he asks why his shirts aren't clean or why there's no dinner, the reply can be 'couldn't be arsed!'

[DJBaggySmalls]

Yes, yabu. He needs to do a lot more than apologise, he needs to grow up and realise you aren't his mother.

[Bobbins43]

Fuck that noise. What an arse

[MoodyMumOfOne]

You must be feeling very upset about this. You definitely deserve an apology but probably best to give him a wide berth for now. Hopefully he will be feeling bad about this once he has had time to reflect and will realise he was out of order

[Bluntness100]

As a stand alone incident, yup he’s a wanker. But is there a wider pic here? You’re crying , he’s stomping around, you say he’s selfish, he says you’re demanding. How old is your child? Are you both coping?

[Danceswithwarthogs]

Have you had dinner now?
What an inconsiderate idiot (and cutting his nose off to spite his face.... unless he's a vegetarian)

[HolidayTimeAgain]

I really hope you didn't cook the chicken for him after that!!!
He needs to do more than simply apologise.

[thatdearoctopus]

Your demands? He mentioned your demands, whilst you're sitting there, presumably demand-feeding his child?

Arse.

[LootTheRoom]

Background - I had a difficult birth which left me weak as I'd lost a lot of blood - I then had a lot of trouble breastfeeding initially so I did need a lot of help in the early days. I'm doing much better now.

[TellMeIAmBonkers]

He's a cock.

[LootTheRoom]

Yes chicken was dinner for both of us

[NoKidsTwoCats]

Sorry you've had a tough time of it LootTheRoom. Definitely sounds like he's being an utter arse

[NoKidsTwoCats]

Sorry you've had a tough time of it LootTheRoom. Definitely sounds like he's being an utter arse