I have 2 friends I have known since school and we have now been close friends for over 30 years. Our children have grown up together. We have shared lots of holidays. I would say they are my closest friends.
They live in the same town as each other but I am about an hours drive away.
2 or 3 years ago we went for a weekend break together and it turned out to be not so nice (too much wine, stupid discussion at dinner turned into an argument (one of the friends and my husband), some bad feeling on both sides the next day, me kind of in the middle).
I've seen them since then on my own, and it's fine. One of them has stayed at our house and it was lovely.
However they now go away together on holidays and they never ask me. In fact they never invite me anywhere. If I invite them, one of them always cries off.
I know it's because of the thing with my husband, but honestly it was nothing really.
I don't know what to do about it. Nothing I suppose, but I'm very upset by it.
I find it very hurtful that they'll text me etc. but never include me in their plans any more. It's not even my fault! I didn't argue with anyone!
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frillyflower · 25/09/2017 15:19
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