My mum and her partner were together 20 years. He was told he was terminally ill at the start of the summer and passed away last month.
In his last few months they got married, it was something the always wanted to do but in the end time made the decision for them and it was lovely. Before he passed away my mum told us she hopes he makes it to her birthday so she can have just one 'wife' card. He didn't and her birthday is tomorrow.
At his funeral a close friend of my mum's said to me you have to get her a wife card from him it's so important.
I have got the card but now I'm torn as to weather to send it. I it was me I wouldn't like someone to do that it's a lovely thought but it's not from that person so seems a little strange however I feel awful that someone has said I should do it for her and now I'm not going to. What do you think? it's such a hard situation. I just don't think it's what you do
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Should I send DM birthday card from her DH who passed away?
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Bippitybopityboo · 24/09/2017 23:54
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