I have been with my DH for 15 years and we have 2 DSs - 10 and 3. DH is from Australia and has been saying for years he wants all of us to go and live there. I would rather not but can see it might be better for us as a family and he has been here for years.
About 9 months ago I said if we are going to go let's go and arranged a one day a week nursery place for the 3 yo (DH is a SAHD) but despite this the house is nowhere near ready. In an attempt to get things moving several weeks ago I said if the place isn't on the market by the end of September I'm not going. We have just agreed to push it back by 2 weeks but despite the 3 yo now going to nursery 3 hours every day I still can't see it happening.
So AIBU to say that's it - end of Australia plan if deadline is not reached? I've been is a new job for 6 months and really like it and there are some good opportunities there (when I pushing the plan I was stuck in a crappy job so this may be influencing my thinking)
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Redcliff · 24/09/2017 22:13
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