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AIBU to think this man's comment was unnecessary and rude.

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AmberStClare Sun 24-Sep-17 18:11:55

Having a Sunday afternoon stroll by the river locally and passed a man then drew level with two women with a couple of dogs. One of the women turned and started to say something to me then called back to the man laughing saying she thought I was him. He shouted back 'Good lord no, I am better looking than that'. I stopped, turned round and glared at him and said to watch it as I might feel tempted to push him in the river. Why are some men so pitiful?

NancyDonahue Sun 24-Sep-17 18:15:06

Was he just joking?

AllTheWittyNamesAreGone Sun 24-Sep-17 18:16:09

Sounds like a badly thought out joke

AmberStClare Sun 24-Sep-17 18:16:28

Not sure, a twat I suspect. The women both looked very embarrassed.

Threenme Sun 24-Sep-17 18:18:45

I doubt he was serious op!

BackieJerkhart Sun 24-Sep-17 18:19:13

HEs a knob for sure. You don't say a think like that to a stranger! Different if it's your friend and you can have a joke but not a stranger.

lemonsandlimes123 Sun 24-Sep-17 18:20:14

He sounds like he was making a silly joke (possibly even being sarcastically self deprecating).

You sound as if your response was incredibly aggressive and disproportionate.

arethereanyleftatall Sun 24-Sep-17 18:20:43

The only way this would be acceptable is if you're gorgeous and he clearly isn't, so he was joking. Take it that way!

splendidisolation Sun 24-Sep-17 18:22:04

Depends. Are you gorgeous?

CherryChasingDotMuncher Sun 24-Sep-17 18:23:41

I agree he’s a knob. People who go out their way to publicly embarrass others are knobs

AmberStClare Sun 24-Sep-17 18:24:04

Lemons, so you would laugh a tinkly laugh would you as such a comment?

As I am 5'9'' and blonde and he was 5' and bald assume was a joke. Debatable if I looked gorgeous as my hair needs a wash!

Needalifeoverhaul Sun 24-Sep-17 18:25:21

It was just a joke op. My dad's sense of humour is just the same! I wouldn't give it another thought.

Fekko Sun 24-Sep-17 18:27:20

Just a joke - especially if you are obviously more attractive than him!

silverbell64 Sun 24-Sep-17 18:27:27

It was a joke wasn't it. I'd not be so offended at all.

NotTheDuchessOfCambridge Sun 24-Sep-17 18:28:08

It was a joke OP, chill out.

lemonsandlimes123 Sun 24-Sep-17 18:28:25

Well given the extra info you have now given, it was clearly a joke at his expense not yours! So yes i would probably smile.

Not sure what your random tinkly laugh comment is about, I assume you are now trying to have a go at me as well as the man!

MrsMHasIt Sun 24-Sep-17 18:28:38

I think he made a poorly thought out joke and I doubt he meant to hurt your feelings. I think your response was unreasonable, but also spare of the moment forgivable.

I once said 'hey sexy' in a joking way to a totally inappropriate recipient. As soon as I opened my mouth I wanted to die. It was horrible!

lemonsandlimes123 Sun 24-Sep-17 18:29:30

The women were probably nervous at your aggressive and threatening response!

FannyWisdom Sun 24-Sep-17 18:29:40

Fucks sake.

BackieJerkhart Sun 24-Sep-17 18:30:21

Ugh is this one of those crap attempts at flirting? Like when boys pull a girl's pigtails and gets told "it's just 'cause he likes you"?

Beeziekn33ze Sun 24-Sep-17 18:30:59

Just a silly joke. Surprised you didn't just laugh back saying 'in your dreams!' or similar.
No wonder the women looked embarrassed.

Wilburissomepig Sun 24-Sep-17 18:34:25

Sounds like it was a joke, if not a very funny one.

You do sound as though you've taken it very seriously though, OP.

Bluntness100 Sun 24-Sep-17 18:34:51

I also think he was making a joke at his own expense.

PutTheBunnyBackInTheBox Sun 24-Sep-17 18:35:09

As I am 5'9'' and blonde and he was 5' and bald assume was a joke.

Righto.

PerfumeIsAMessage Sun 24-Sep-17 18:38:14

Like you said yourself....it was a joke.

It must be exhausting for people on MN at the moment to be so constantly offended at everything.

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