So, we've put the house on the market, photos being done on Tuesday.
We have this weekend and school hours Monday to get the house smartened up enough to look appealing in photos.
DH did a mortgage appointment this morning, sorted out a storage unit and started moving stuff over this afternoon.
He was finding the kids quite wearing and went to the pub to meet a friend around 5:30 - I was totally fine with this (have been trying to encourage him to go out as he rarely does). He said he wouldn't be long.
He wasn't home in time for their dinner/bed, but texted at 7:30 saying he was staying for one more then home.
No DH still at 9:30 so I texted asking if he was still at the pub, he replies that he's just about to go get a takeaway.
Eldest DC (ASD) is getting under my feet trying to play Lego while I'm painting. I get cross with him.
He got home at 10:30, looking faux sheepish.
I'm pissed off that he disappeared for five hours when we have so much to do, knowing that after 3.5 pints he won't want to do anything useful but sleep.
I wanted him to be home at a reasonable time and help, either with DC1, kitchen, or painting, and didn't think in the circs I had to ask!
He then justified himself by saying that he's the breadwinner! FFS.
I used some completely unnecessary and disrespectful language, which wound him up massively, and he stropped off to bed.
So, who IBU? Bit of both I suspect...
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VforVienetta · 23/09/2017 23:34
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