I have a close friend who has a busy life,3 kids,job etc as a lot of us do. Granted I have more free time than she does but am getting really tired of being fitted in around shopping trips, visits to retail parks to return goods and other necessities, She takes multi tasking to another level! I think what I'm feeling is that she doesn't value my friendship enough to dedicate quality time to. This is making me feel really used/worthless. She often suggests we meet in town and say she she will text me when she is ready to meet for an hour of her precious time and if she (very rarely) suggests a time to meet she will often text to say she is running late. She is a lovely person and very kind and has a lot of friends but I think she spreads herself far too thinly. I have tried to stop making the first move to meet up and she will eventually text to suggest we meet but it's always a flier. I think she knows what she is doing underneath but justifies it by her "busy lifestyle" I would add she has another close friend she manages to meet up with for drinks,meal and full afternoon/evening out every 6-8 weeks or so. If I didn't enjoy her company so much I would just concentrate on other friends who do value my time more.....am I being unreasonable?
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Anecdoche ·
22/09/2017 13:40
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