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My DD(9) has some quite severe difficulties. She has crippling low self esteem and anxiety which manifests as violent meltdowns, suicidal thoughts and self harm attempts. She had some other issues such as sensory issues.
After many years trying to seek help, we finally got CAMHS to see us and had 8 sessions with a psychologist. They are about to discharge her from the service and are saying it's an attachment disorder.
I have read around the subject and note that it is usually caused by early trauma or detached parenting (obviously simplifying there). However, I do not recognise any of this from her early life. I was a totally devoted mother. I co-slept, breast fed, made all organic baby food. I was a SAHM at the time and took her to endless baby groups and played with her constantly. I was only 15 when I had my first child so when DD came along in my 20's, I enjoyed motherhood so much more as I had none of those first time mother anxieties and was much older and able to cope. I totally devoted myself to her.
Things are more difficult now as I have a chronic illness and our circumstances have changed but her issues manifested before this came about. So why has this happened to my DD? I feel like I've gone badly wrong somewhere but can't pinpoint exactly what or where this happened.
Has anyone got an insight into ADs that could explain it to me please?
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What causes attachment disorder if there was no trauma?
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NumberEight · 21/09/2017 09:39
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