What do you do if somebody has spoken v.unkindly about you behind your back???
I don't have proof but believe a close friend of mine in the past has started a nasty rumour!!
We no longer friends but I'm afraid ppl r believing her!
It upsets me, my question is if somebody said something nasty about a friend : Wud you believe them?? Wud you ignore them?? Wud you tell them someone was spreading rumours?? Do you believe gossip?? Do you give people benefit of the doubt??
I feel sad some ppl actually believed this person. Just feel sometimes if you hear something unsavoury maybe question where is this coming from? Shud I pass judgement on something that is just hearsay? Do I Believe everything ppl gossip about??
My point is can we all be Kind to each other & maybe not pass judgement on something someone says too quickly?? Cud they b lying??
Has anyone had similar experiences, how did you cope??
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chooselove · 20/09/2017 00:46
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