So my friend and I were chatting yesterday about wanting DC in the near future. Long story short, I said that I don't just want a DC, I want a family. She looked at me like I was crazy and said she'd never even thought about it that way, she just saw it as having a DC not having a family.
Now I'm confused. I mean is my way of thinking about it abnormal? The way I see it, if I just wanted a DC I probably would have brought it up with my ex. But I don't, I want to be able to provide them with a happy family life. Of course people break up, things change and the best laid plans and all that. So I know I have a very in an ideal world viewpoint but I guess I was just wondering if it's abnormal to view it the way I do?
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PixieChemist · 13/09/2017 16:55
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