Argh.
I met a lovely guy a few months ago and he's caring, funny, generous - all the things you could possibly want in a partner (and basically the total opposite of my ex).
We've seen quite a lot of each other, I've met all his family, get on really well with them and lately things are becoming a bit more serious.
I know no one is perfect BUT his silliness is starting to really put me off and turn me off being physical with him.
If we're with other people he doesn't do it, but on our own he puts on silly baby-type voices, will make silly faces and will act quite camp at times (will walk in a way as if he's swinging a bag on his hips/dance in a silly, quite feminine, way etc.)
He can also act quite immature when we're alone and if for e.g. I say 'Right! I'd better head off, it's getting late', he'll start acting like a kid and say 'Noooooo, I don't want you to gooooooo' in a childish voice and cling onto me.
On one hand I really do appreciate all his lovely other qualities and the fact we both want the same things in life, he's a good person, yada yada yada. And on the other I just feel like I wish he would be a little more mature and serious when it's just the two of us.
AIBU to potentially call it off for this? We're both in our twenties.
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To be turned off by his silliness
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girlconfused · 13/09/2017 09:29
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