I have just started a new job within the same company, at a different location, and doing different hours. It's a placement that could possibly lead to a permanent position.
When I was interviewed (by Grandboss and head of HR) I said I am completely flexible.
The hours are fixed at 5pm-1am. The operation is 24/7. There are 2 of us managers sharing duties. When I started the other manager asked what were my days off in my previous position - Sunday and Tuesday. She expects me to do every Saturday in this position! She said she thought I was flexible! I don't want to as it will have an extremely detrimental effect on my marriage as I won't really see my husband. She ideally wants every Friday and Saturday off and to work Sundays as there is a 50% premium for working Sundays.
I've said I'm willing to work every other Saturday/Friday, but she's not willing to do that. She wants me to be responsible for every Saturday with her 'helping me out ' if I have a specific appointment. I'm reluctant as I know I will get stuck doing every Saturday.
Atm we don't have a Bigboss. They are currently interviewing for that position so at present I don't really have a Manager to have 1:1s with.
In my previous position I did work a Rota, but within a bigger team and the latest I finished, barring any emergency, was 8pm so there was minimal impact on my personal life.
The other manager is not my line manager, but she is a signed off manager and I am not.
I really want to get this sorted asap. It's playing on my mind all the time and taking away from the enjoyment of this new position. I think we need to sort this between ourselves as adults without involving higher management, but I am at a loss as how to continue.
She's told me she's single and she said most single's nights are on Fridays and that's when she mostly sees her friends. She also told me that Saturdays are for couples (I wasn't aware of either of these! - Been married too long)
AIBU to not want to work every Friday and Saturday night?
Please help. I really am at my wits' end
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IloveJudgeJudy · 11/09/2017 13:42
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