We have a new admin guy at work. It's a pretty diverse international place and I think he's from Central Asia somewhere. He's taken to sending emails addressing people by their last names alone. Apart from the fact that the organization tends to be pretty informal, surely you put mr/mrs etc in front of the name?!
So he says Dear Jones and not dear ms Jones. I answered him that he could call me my first name to which he replied he prefers to not move to a first name basis yet . I then replied (as a ps to a longer email) that I would therefore prefer he use ms or dr (I have phd but never usually use the title but, hey, if we're being formal). He's now replied pointing out that we have never met (although with no salutation at all!).
Aibu that this is a little bizarre? Isn't it a little rude to just call people by their last name? Makes me think of the army or prison!!
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To think it's weird, if not rude, to call people by their last names alone
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UmmKultum · 23/08/2017 18:09
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