Not an AIBU but only post on here..
Longtime poster just NC because I'm a fucking shit parent and don't want to be outed.
I had DD2 3 weeks ago, DD1 is 2yo. DD2 doesn't sleep during the day, she'll wake up around 7/8am and will finally sleep again between 2-4pm. All fine if she was content and I could pop her down, shove dummy in her mouth etc but this isn't the case. She just wants to be held and rocked constantly which I understand as she's so teeny but she's constantly over tired, just wants to sleep but can't. She'll want to change positions constantly as I'm holding her so sling doesn't work.
She'll finally doze off after hours and then a few minutes later her eyes will bolt open and it'll take me another 2 hours to get her to that point where she's drowsy enough for a 5 minute nap only to repeat everything all over again. If I put her down when she's asleep she'll wake up and cry and cry. No reflux or anything, I'm mixed feeding and she's feeding well and is OK during the night (up every 1.5/2hrs for a feed but goes back down within 30-60 mins) it's just during the day it's an absolute nightmare.
I'm very fortunate to have my mum helping me at the moment but she's going in a few weeks and I have no clue how I'm going to cope with both of them without one being seriously neglected. I can't rock DD2 for hours and hours all day long as I'm doing now but I also can't leave her to cry. DD1 has become clingy since her sister was born and needs my attention. I can't get anything done and I'm exhausted I just don't know what to do. Please someone tell me this is normal and she will get better or any advice I'm starting to regret having her and feeling guilty for even thinking that. I had severe PND with my first and can feel it creeping back again. I just want to shut myself away, curl up in a ball and close my eyes. Please help.
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Finished90 · 22/08/2017 12:36
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