This is my situation:
I am 33 years old, single. I was employed for 10 years, I had some savings but I have spent them on another degree in order to retrain as a psychologist. So, right now I am studying and living more or less hand-to mouth. My mum has told me that when I am back in a job and ready to buy a home, she will give me a sum of money (probably 10K or so) for a deposit on a house.
I have taken a big salary cut while retraining, but by living frugally I hope to have saved as much as £2,000 by next summer, when I qualify and graduate.
What I would like to do is to use that £2,000 to travel for a month or two before beginning my new career.
Do you think that it is reasonable for me to spend my savings on a trip abroad, and then accept money from mum for a house?
My sense of decency tells me that if I have £2000 to spare and want a house then I should spend my own money on it, not fritter my money away in the knowledge I'll get a handout.
On the other hand mum's offer is not dependent on my financial situation, it is a gift which she has long told my sister and I that we can ask for whenever we are ready for it. The opportunity for me to take a big chunk of time out to travel is unlikely to arise again soon.
So would I be unreasonable to spend my savings?
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Voyager1 · 22/08/2017 00:15
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