Let me start by saying DH & I are happy as a couple, have 2 great kids & very lucky to have good health, friends, family, home, no major debt etc and both self employed in our chosen careers that aren't brilliantly paid but allow us the odd holiday - I'd say we lead a pretty charmed life compared to many.
However, DH seems to be always on the look out for some sort of life-changing adventure or major upheaval for the sake of doing something different & exciting. We've had moving to Australia then Canada, buying a small holding in rural Wales, buying a plot of land and building a new house, a castle in Scotland, taking the kids out of school to travel the world for a year - amongst many other ideas over the years!
Clearly he's yearning for adventure and a bit more excitement than our current safe & admittedly sometimes mundane life but I see this as realities of life now and these are things we either should have done before kids or wait until retirement. I feel a right party pooper every time he comes up with something new and I know he gets irritated by my lack of adventure. Anyone else have to deal with this? I do sometimes wonder whether I should take on board some of his suggestions and 'live a little' but feel we have so much to lose that I can't bring myself to make such major changes at this stage in our lives (kids at primary school, mortgage to pay off, minimal savings etc)I
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To find DH's constant desire for a more exciting life tiring?
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thisgirlrides · 20/08/2017 20:52
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