Hi all
Just posting here as I feel a bit .
I have kids. I've always bought them up to say please and thanks. Basic manners, right? The youngest is 4.
Often says both without prompting. No big deal.
Had my niece & nephew for a couple nights last week. Don't see them much. 8 and 10 years old. Took them out for pizza/cinema/bought snacks/cooked.... Not a single spontaneous thank you! Or please. A few times I said 'a thanks would be nice!' & they did. My sister (their mum) didn't even ask them to say thanks when she picked them up.
Probs spent quite a lot of my (non-existent) money on them too. They are pretty well off & get very expensive days out/meals out etx.
Is this non-appreciative behaviour normal? AIBU?
Just seems so weird as we were brought up to be really polite.....
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Children and basic manners! AIBU to want to feel appreciated?
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wordsareeverything · 20/08/2017 19:54
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20/08/2017 20:06
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