Hello.
I am just looking for some perspective please.
We moved to a new housing scheme which has a small number of houses.
The majority of neighbours were here first and spend a lot of time together, socialising etc which involves their children.
Our garden was/is being used as a walkway by the children, this is right in front of our living room window.
I asked one neighbour if she could ask the children not to walk through the garden, this did not go well, she went on to insult me due to my child not playing out on the road with the other children, my child is young and I don't feel it's safe nor appropriate for them to play on a road.
Anyway after this I was what appeared to be shunned by the majority of the neighbours which is okay by me, following this I received a newspaper article through my door about children playing in the street, it's an initiative started in some areas.
A few days after this the neighbour I spoke to originally approached me stating her partner had posted the article, I said it seemed passive aggressive which she said it wasn't, anyway the conversation got quite heated and I was told that I keep my child locked in a garden and don't let him play, my garden gate is locked when said child is in the garden, I also was told I shouldn't be bothered about children walking in my garden, or up my drive and that I was being anal about it, oh and told to put up a fence!
So am I being ridiculous about this?
There is more to the story but feel is long enough already, and others I've spoken to agree that young children should not play on a road and that people should not walk i through other people gardens!
Please give me some feedback, as it stands I continue to be shunned by the neighbours which is fine but am I being precious about a garden?
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spinningred · 20/08/2017 11:35
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