Dd is almost 2 and is going through some turmoil ATM. We are Looking for a new house after a freak incident meant we had to leave our last home. She has had some issues but on the whole (probably as she is so young) she is ok. STBXH cares for her 40-60% of the time depending on the week. He is now starting a fifo job that will take him away for 2 weeks to six months at a time, with equal time off. So if he works 3 weeks at the end of it he gets 3 weeks off.
His first assignement is 2 weeks on 2 off. I'm very very nervous about the whole thing. How will dd cope if she doesn't see him for a few weeks/months when on the whole we have pretty equal care? I'm a bit miffed at him too as we did have an arrangement where when he was working dd was with me and I (I don't do much work only a few weeks contracts here and there to keep my skills current) had the same with him, at the moment I'm working a big festival and dd has been with him a lot, barring evenings and the very rare afternoon/morning off.
That's about to go down the pan. I feel he's shown a lack of consideration not only towards me but worse still our dd
Aibu to ask how you'd help your child cope with this?
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To ask how your child would cope with this and how would you help them?
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Cocklodger · 19/08/2017 07:39
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