A bit of background here. My dad was violent when I was younger and my mum eventually binned him off when I was quite young but still let me see him, though he didn't see me at all for a number of years but we see each other regularly now. Even though he was violent he's still my dad. He's now remarried to someone who has a daughter from a previous relationship.
My mum passed away 7 years ago, and I had my first child 8 months ago. I already feel guilty that my mum never got to meet her first grandchild and it's like I'm rewarding my dad. But when they introduce me to people, they call me 'their' daughter or say they have 2 daughters together. I cringe when they say this because I feel like this is an insult to my mum. When ever I talk about them to people I say 'my dad's wife' or 'my dad and his wife' and even 'my dad's wife's daughter' because I just don't think of them as my stepmum and stepsister.
But they have been supportive of me, especially since mum died. I think he feels guilty that he wasn't there when I was younger and is trying to make up for it now that I don't have her anymore.
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Clumsymumsy22 · 17/08/2017 07:45
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