AIBU? My weight watchers leader used the term Chinky in the meeting this morning and I was shocked and upset by this. <br>She seems a nice woman but I thought this kind of lingo got left behind in the 1970s. <br>I guess you can't stop folk using racially offensive terms in the comfort of their own homes but this was as part of a talk delivered to quite a few paying members. <br>She's not even got the excuse of being old or living in a non diverse area - not that I have the right to excuse people. <br>I have sent her a text as I feel it was not appropriate to talk to her about it with so many people around. <br>I kind of feel I don't want to go back to the weekly meeting as I'm not feeling the love any more. <br>Just getting this off my chest as much as anything else