ExP pays minimum amount of maintenance (calculated by the CMS). The weekly amount he pays would only cover the cost of one day a week at nursery, nothing else. We both work (him full time , me part time) so DS is in nursery for 4 days a week. My wage alone would barely cover the monthly cost of nursery but I am very lucky to have a DP who happily pays the fees for his DSS.
ExP has asked to take DS out of nursery as a one off for a day out - I have asked if he would be willing to go halves on the nursery fee for that day as nursery will still expect to be paid the full amount even though DS would not be there. I thought this was a fair compromise.
ExP has refused and said he will just have him the one day of the weekend he normally does, rather than the weekday.
Who is BU? I feel sad that my DS will miss out on a day out but equally he loves nursery, he wont know any different and he may as well be there if we've to pay for it - ExP can't want to take him that much if he won't contribute an extra £20 as a one off!?
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