I have a friend that I have known since high school and we are all in a group of friends that went to school together boys and girls. When we were at school this girl was very very lovely. As the years have gone on and she lost some puppy fat and gained some confidence she has become quite different.
She is quite confrontational and judgemental and she says really offensive sometimes hurtful things.
When one of our friends had recently had a baby and attended a birthday party she commented to her afterwards that she was "massive" at the party. She has no children of her own but she constantly judges other people for the way they parent and she also butts in and chastises people's children.
She has made many derogatory comments in the past about items of clothing, the cleanliness of peoples houses etc.
I have become sensitive to this over the last few years and feel on edge sometimes when I am around her. Last time we met up she made a very derogatory comment about my phone being shit.
I am in a very happy marriage with children where she has been bankrupt and lives with her parents.
I don't know why she feels the need to do this and I'm not sure how to react when she says these things. A few times I have called her out and she has pretended it was a joke and made me look like the idiot.
AIBU next time she does this to just tell her to fuck off or just stop speaking to her completely?
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tobuscus · 25/07/2017 00:07
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