I had a high risk pregnancy with my daughter and struggled to look after my other daughter when i hit 38 weeks. My DH told his mum our situation and asked if there was anyway he could borrow 1000 to cover 2 weeks off work so he could help me. He told her we wouldn't be able to pay it back for about a year and asked if it was definitely ok. She said yes, checked with DHs stepdad etc and it was all fine.
2 weeks after giving birth she came to see me and told me she thought she had given us enough time now and it was time to start paying it back as my husband had been taking our daughter out on a few day trips to keep her busy and not stuck in the house with a newborn.
I told DH and he spoke to her and she said that she would ideally like it back asap as she wanted to go on holiday and may need a week off sick in a couple of months.
We have been trying to pay it back and in 4 months weve managed to pay 200 back. She has now told other relatives who have offered to pay her for us so we can owe them the money.
I feel really embarassed, this isnt what wr agreed and I hate that our financial situation has been discussed. I hate that it looks as though we've borrowed money we can't afford to pay back when that's not the case at all.
Mil thinks we are BU and should make sure all our spare money gets paid to her but we have 2 babies to pay for now and i dont see why dd1 should go without 1 or 2 days out a month or without clothes because shes changed the deal..
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candypanda283 · 19/07/2017 12:07
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