Dd is 13 and Ds1 is nearly 15.
The only chores they have are keeping their rooms tidy and washing up on alternate days.
Dd is awesome at keeping her room clean, Ds is terrible. When he 'tidied' he actually just shoves stuff under his bed so I eventually end up clearing it out every few months, by which time it's disgusting as it's dirty pants and tissues etc all mixed up.
Washing up is a disaster. They've been doing it since they were about nine or ten and it's getting worse, bit better. It takes them hours, between procrastinating and just fucking faffing. They never leave the kitchen clean, and I often end up spending my evening on top of them pointing out the bits they haven't done. Things like leaving an entire pan, or overstacking the dishwasher, or just not putting anything away. It's just painful. Not to mention the water everywhere and the greasy bits.
I can wash up and clean the kitchen in about ten minutes. DH is adamant that they should do it because otherwise I do literally everything for them.
But I'm just so sick of having to either finish the job or spend time and energy calling them back to finish stuff. Plus it's almost a guaranteed argument every single evening and I can just do without it.
Aibu to just say Fuck It and go back to doing it myself? Or is it vital for them to have some responsibility?
I've just had to restack the clean dishwasher and run it again as ds had put it on last night and hardly anything is clean. They just don't seem to get it.
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To give up with teen chores?
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EssieTregowan · 12/07/2017 09:00
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