So i'm in the process of changing over from DLA to PIP. I am completely reliant on the money, it is currently £307 a month and half my income.
I've just received a letter for a face to face assessment, and it is in Liverpool. I live on the west side of Manchester, google maps is saying 50 minute drive via motorway, as the absolute fastest route, but that is subject to traffic, appointment scheduled for 2pm.
The illness i have means that i am almost completely housebound. When i am able to leave the house it can't be at a planned time because it depends completely on when i actually need the toilet (severe OCD, i havent been able to use a toilet other than in my own home for 10 years, it takes an hour and a half, and i have to shower immediately afterwards which takes another half hour, my bladder has to be full for me to not get UTI symptoms immediately following using the loo which is why i cant go when i don't need it) and i have an unstable bladder. This means i get the sudden urge that im desperate for a wee even when my bladder is virtually empty, i get only a few minutes to get to a toilet, or lie down which makes the urgency go away until i actually need the loo, so i spent 99% of my life lay on my sofa. if i am stood up and the urge comes on, i absolutely cannot hold it. Because of this i cannot go anywhere more than a 15 minute car journey from my house, as getting sat down will reduce the urgency but not make it go away, but gives me just enough time to get home. When i am able to go out of the house i cant stay out much more than half an hour before the urgency inevitably kicks in, so an hour to get there, and an hour to get back, plus the length of the appointment and any possible waiting time, i'd be out for 3 hours, i will 100% get the urgency to go to the loo during that time, probably whilst still on the way travelling to get there.
I don't understand why i wasn't allocated for an assessment in manchester, all my ESA assessments were in manchester, but those were a few years ago since my last one, i don;t know if they still have an assessment centre there. Even if they did i would struggle to go there, but i should just about be able to manage it. They've refused me home assessments in the past so i am not hopeful of them agreeing this time, although my condition has worsened since last time.
I didn't find the letter til an hour ago, i can't phone them til 9am tomorrow, but im having an almighty panic attack right now, that i'm screwed and i'm going to lose money i rely on to live. If i lose the money i'll lose my home and won't be able to afford the bills.
All of this information was given in my actual form i filled out that i would struggle massively to get to an assessment (and that was assuming it was in manchester) and would likely need one at my own home, so why the hell have they allocated me to somewhere effectively an hour away?! I'm scared given their reputation they won't offer me anything else, and that they're trying to force me off the benefit to save themself money. I am completely understanding right now why people commit suicide over these assessments, it's an absolute joke and they're seeing me as a statistic not an actual person.
Surely they must see sense and offer me an appointment somewhere closer that im actually capable of attending?
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AlmostAJillSandwich · 06/07/2017 23:18
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