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Best friend of 20 years has 2 boys, 9 and 11. Eldest one is shy and suffers from anxiety. But once he feels comfortable with his surroundings he is an absolute delightful child, thoughtful and interesting, and he is sensitive and socially aware despite his shyness.
The younger one though is spoilt and bratty. Throws tantrums if he doesn't get his own way, is very whiny and has zero manners.
I love my friend dearly and wouldn't ever wish to hurt her. But she seems completely blind to her younger child's behaviour.
He is bright and knows it. Will often say things like "I'm such a clever boy!" if he gets something right. And gloats when another child gets an answer wrong.
My friend gets upset that he is unpopular and doesn't understand why. She reasons that people are jealous and that it is a side effect of being gifted.
I have bitten my tongue on so many occasions. But it is getting worse and now he is getting bullied for being a show off know all.
Obviously bullying is wrong and my friend is absolutely right to tackle it with the school. But AIBU to gently say something to her or should I keep my mouth shut to avoid upsetting her?
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To gently tell my friend why her son is unpopular
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Whoareyouu · 05/07/2017 03:04
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