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Would you tell your friend to get lost?

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user1498051868 Fri 30-Jun-17 21:50:51

Me and 2 friends are going for a weekend away,staying in quite a nice hotel.
We are driving down in friends car.
I packed a small suitcase (the smallest size ) and 15 mins ago she texts saying "can't bring a case,boot has alcohol in etc so we are taking a small hold-all...I said I haven't got one and we are leaving at 7 am in the morning.
She replied use carrier bags?????
I said no.
Why tell me this late when there's nothing I can do
Would you be annoyed ?

Writerwannabe83 Fri 30-Jun-17 21:54:41

No I wouldn't be.

I would just use carrier bags and look forward to a girly weekend!!

RiseToday Fri 30-Jun-17 21:55:35

How big is your suitcase? How much alcohol is she taking? Cant you put the suitcase at the bottom and alcohol on top!?

PastysPrincess Fri 30-Jun-17 21:55:43

I would pack it in carriers too.

NeedMoreSleepOrSugar Fri 30-Jun-17 21:56:08

Set the case on your lap?

HaudYerWheeshtBawbag Fri 30-Jun-17 21:56:38

Can't you just put it in the front of the seat?

seven201 Fri 30-Jun-17 21:56:55

Just say you'll put the case on your lap.

user1498051868 Fri 30-Jun-17 21:56:57

She's taking 3 crates of cans .
I wouldn't of minded if she said earlier today and I could of bought a small bag.
Maybe I'm being over sensitive

lobsterface Fri 30-Jun-17 21:57:23

Tote bags ruck one cares what you take. Or just pretend and try to squeeze it in

PurpleDaisies Fri 30-Jun-17 21:57:38

I don't understand why what you take your clothes in is so important to you.

Just take carrier bags.

user1498051868 Fri 30-Jun-17 21:57:49

She has 2 car seats in the back and then il be sat in the back and 2 friends up front

user1498051868 Fri 30-Jun-17 21:58:43

I'm annoyed because they've left it till the last minute to say always feels like I get the raw end of the deal in every situation tbh ..I think this has just been the icing on the cake.

Chloe84 Fri 30-Jun-17 21:59:07

You need a weekend bag from Primark or a large carrier bag or rucksack.

It's no biggie. Plus it's her car so you should not tell her to get lost or she may leave you behind.

BrutusMcDogface Fri 30-Jun-17 21:59:08

Can't she take the car seats out?! Then you can have your case next to you........confused

Mrbrownstone Fri 30-Jun-17 21:59:09

I wouldnt arrive at a hotel with my stuff in carrier bags. Jusy put your bag on your lap

Chloe84 Fri 30-Jun-17 21:59:56

Are they taking suitcases?

And could you sit in the frint on the way back?

PurpleDaisies Fri 30-Jun-17 22:00:04

How is it "getting the raw end of the deal"? confused

ChasedByBees Fri 30-Jun-17 22:00:07

It would be irritating but if it doesn't fit, it doesn't fit.

pasturesgreen Fri 30-Jun-17 22:00:07

YANBU, there's absolutely no way I'd be taking carrier bags.

If it's just three of you in the car can't you just chuck the suitcase in the back?

user1498051868 Fri 30-Jun-17 22:00:08

She won't take them out ..
Says it's a faff on...

Chloe84 Fri 30-Jun-17 22:00:55

Sorry, you're going away tomorrow, so no time to buy a bag!

pasturesgreen Fri 30-Jun-17 22:01:22

Cross post, sorry! Suitcase on the floor at the back then.

AlternativeTentacle Fri 30-Jun-17 22:01:37

Just pop it behind the front seat. Gosh what a non issue.

EmmaGrundy Fri 30-Jun-17 22:01:50

Could you put your suitcase in the footwell in front of one of the car seats?

user1498051868 Fri 30-Jun-17 22:02:24

Last week we all went out,rather than take car seats out someone had to get in the boot ..that was me.
Weekend before had to go to the pubs they want to go too..
Borrow money never pay it back ..
It just feels like they think they can say whatever to me and il just do it...
They both went out today and bought a bag specifically ..yet tell me at 9.30 pm when it's too late to go out and get one.

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