My DSis is having a hard time. She's started a new job she isn't enjoying and says she isn't excelling at. I think this is due to the culture of the organisation which is very disorganised, rather than her skills. She's really incredible.
But, also, I had my DD 7 months ago nearly and everything I'm doing as a Mum seems to make her feel like utter shit. When she has her first he cried nonstop for 6 months and she had a really tough time. My DM keeps commenting (in front of both of us) how lovely my DD is and how difficult her DS was. I raised today that this isn't helpful and she needs to stop doing this as every time she does my DSis visibly recoils and clearly feels like shit. I think she PND and this hasn't ever been acknowledged but her DC's are now in their teens and they are lovely kids.
DSis makes comments like, "You're a natural" and "I know you look down on me,"
I really don't and she is an amazing Mum but what can I do to help apart from staying away from her? I love her and I don't want to make her feel like crap but it seems every time I'm there she does. I'm lost.
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WIBU to distance myself from my DSis as I'm just making her feel shit and I don't know what I'm doing wrong
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ChildishGambino · 29/06/2017 23:26
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