So a bit of background.
I have a 15 year old DS, who is suffering from anxiety and depression. He is seeing a psychologist weekly for CBT, and I am trying to support him as best as I can, and thought I was doing a pretty good job. I am there to listen, he has always been able to talk to me, and I'm prepared to just sit with him when he's feeling very low.
However, what I'm not prepared to do is put up with his rude and obnoxious behaviour, and just accept it as a symptom of depression. This has only been an issue for the past couple of weeks, he has started to be a complete PITA at times, but then tries to tell DH and I that we are unreasonable for calling him out on this. He insists that it is a symptom of his depression (which I'm in agreement with), and that if he had a cold and was sneezing all of the time, we wouldn't be saying 'stop sneezing'. He says that I should just 'put up with' being used as a verbal punch bag, but I disagree, and think I should tell him each and every time that I will not be spoken to like that.
I guess what I'm worried about is that he is trying to insist that because he has depression and anxiety issues, then he should be able to treat people however he likes.
AIBU to not agree? I'm prepared to be told that I am. I've never suffered from depression, so I can't really see it from his point of view, much as I'm trying.
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AIBU to not accept obnoxious behaviour as a symptom of depression?
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whateveryousay · 27/06/2017 14:39
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