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I went to a forest day event locally on the weekend. I have 2 DDs - age 3 and 5. My new(ish) friends also each have 2 children aged 3 and 5, and they came along! So in total, 3 Girls and 3 boys between 3 and 5.
Now, there were lots of different things going on at this event, held in a national trust type place! My dd's and their friends wanted to do bark rubbing and colouring, which apparently should take around 45 minutes in a sheltered, wooded area, open to the rest of the event with no fence around.
My friend said she'd asked the lady running the bark thing (who we'd never met before and knew nothing about) and that it was fine for us to leave all the kids and come back in 45 minutes. There were about 20 kids total doing this bark thing, and all their parents stayed.
Anyway, my friends said they would go and get a coffee in the coffee shop (far ish away, definitely not in view) and come back and get kids later.
I felt really uncomfortable leaving the kids with someone I didn't know, and lots of other parents and children I didn't know, in a big place where they easily (and knowing their personalities, probably would have) run off and mingled with all the other people and activities at the park.
Friends tried to persuade me to go with them, but I stayed with kids. Good job to, as although I said nothing to friends, all the children (including mine!) wreaked havoc as soon as my friends left! And the leader basically left kids to it and was nowhere to be seen. My friends were even late back to collect kids - so don't know where they'd have gone if I hadn't been there.
Anyway, I know I am an overly anxious parent at times, so maybe I am being unreasonable, but is it normal to leave such small kids in such a place? Are these new(ish) friends ok to hang about with? (I really really like one of them a lot and thought we might become good friends in time! but am confused about this!?) Really not sure what to make of it!?
Thanks for advice!!!!
(ps. It might b me being too anxious a mum! I'm prepared to hear that!!)
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AnnieMouse22 · 26/06/2017 13:45
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