AIBU if I don't organise something to do to help celebrate my own birthday Mother's Day our anniversary then we don't do anything, ever, even big birthdays.
I am fussy like organising and planning and am fairly good at it but I am now getting a bit weary of it all now and feel unappreciated like I am not worth making the effort for.
The only way he will do anything at all is if I have a major melt down and get upset then he might eventually book a restaurant the night before or a couple of nights before (and invariably) you can't get what you want but I have to help decide which restaurant to go to.
I plan things for his birthday, DC's birthdays as well as researching planning booking and organising DIY holidays and and weekends away.
He is a good husband in many ways and is mich more spontaneous than I am. Is anyone else's DH like this this and AIBU to be fed up of this?
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Birthdays Mother's Day anniversary holiday
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Brighteyes27 · 25/06/2017 09:33
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