DH instigated divorce, can't go into details on here but it turns out the grass wasn't greener, it was full of thistles.
I've been through hell and back for a year and was absolutely devastated especially as it was right before an important anniversary which I was so happy about and was planning a big party to celebrate. This was the second time he wanted to end our marriage. We've been together for a long time.
I've now got my life in order and I'm looking forward to the future again, I've got a great new job and I've paid off my debts.
I've tried not to think about my future without him but it should be ok, I've always been afraid of growing old alone.
Trouble is after what I've been through the last year my feelings for him have died. I just can't seem to get them back, we were so in love for so long. I simply cannot arouse any enthusiasm for getting back together for a decond time.
AIBU for not wanting to give it another go and saving my marriage before the absolute comes through.
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IrritatedUser1960 · 25/06/2017 07:28
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