Name changed as I'm a regular and this could be identifying.
We have never been on holiday with friends before because essentially we are quite antisocial and like to do our own stuff. This year we agreed to go on holiday with some close friends. We have two DC (1 and 3) they have one DC (1). We've been friends about 15 years.
We agreed to go to Spain. They left all the research to me and kept asking if I had found somewhere to book yet. I did say suggestions welcome but nobody made any. I got a recommendation from somebody of this small apartment complex in a quiet area. The place isn't easily found online, but another set of friends had been there and said it was fantastic. Five apartments around a shared pool.
Shared with friends, all agreed and we booked an apartment and they booked an apartment.
My DH saw the H in the other couple tonight (let's call him Ian) who said by complete coincidence that another couple (and their two year old) that they know (lets call them Tim and Sue) have by complete chance booked an apartment in the same complex on the same dates.
We have only met Tim and Sue once and weren't that keen on them. My DH said oh had you mentioned it to them as odd they would even find that apartment complex and Ian played dumb and said what are the chances, pure coincidence. DH laughed and said are you sure you hadn't mentioned it and Ian said no.
I think bullshit they have invited another family without consulting us. They are quite good friends with them. If they had asked we would have most likely said fine but it feels a bit sprung upon us.
I'm miffed. We wouldn't choose to go on holiday with Tim and Sue as we don't know them well.
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CrashGater · 23/06/2017 22:25
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