Me and dp have been together for 4 years, we have 1 dd, when we first got together I was working, after I had dd I stopped an have been a sahm up until a month ago, whilst I was at home I was never given money for any of the bills I had in my name but in the past he used (credit card, catalogues) so I've ended up owing money but finally now able to pay it back.
Out of those years he took me once shopping for a few bits of clothes, I ended up wearing the same clothes. It was really shit, constantly having to remind him to pay the rent etc.
Anyway since I have been working he's asked me to buy him a PlayStation, new trainers, saying he's going to buy a van because it would be cheaper on fuel but knowingly chose a car that rinses petrol. His car is playing up and I just know he's going to ask me for money for it.
When really I'm just thinking all those times I lived in the same shit and worrying about debt letters coming through I want to clear them all and treat myself and daughter not start spending all my money on stuff for him!
Am I being selfish? As we do live together but since I've started working it's like let's get this let's get that, I'm not earning 100's a week either.
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To think "no I won't pay for your car"
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CheeseOverload · 22/06/2017 12:12
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