DS is 3 next month. He has always taken hours to fall asleep, and we have always accommodated it as gently as we can, but it's now getting ridiculous. If we make his bedtime later he falls asleep slightly quicker for a few days, then seems to accommodate himself to it. Ditto if we increase exercise. We were doing bedtime at 7.30/8 but have recently given up on even trying until 8.30. Today, he woke up at 6, then ran around all morning at nursery. He had a 1 hour nap there after lunch, then ran around again until 5.45 when I picked him up. Then we popped to the shops, then we went fecking swimming as I thought that would serve a duel purpose of cooling him down and tiring him out. Got him showered and into pjs at the pool, he was yawning his head off. We were home at 8.30 and got into bed, and it still took him until 10.45 to fall asleep. He's not messing around (mostly) - he does just lie there, and is clearly tired, but he will not/ cannot go to sleep!
He seems to be almost ready to drop naps, but if he has no naps he goes to sleep slightly quicker (more like an hour) for two or three days, then crashes sometime in the mid-afternoon on the third or fourth day and sleeps unrousably for hours. Last time he crashed out at 4pm on day 3, woke at midnight, didn't go to sleep again until 5 and then it takes us days to sort out the mess.
We already limit screen time, and have none at all after about mid-afternoon. He is kept very busy at nursery three days a week and really quite busy the other days. He eats a decent amount. He's had the same bedtime routine of songs and milk and story since he was tiny. It's driving me nuts. Tbh I'm reaching the point where I might just put him to bed at 10 - but then surely that's not enough sleep when he's waking at 6?! It's not enough sleep for me, never mind a 2 year old!
I am obsessing about this somewhat as DS2 is due in two weeks time and I have no idea how I'm going to manage this with both of them, as DH often works evenings...
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To be at the end of my tether with this?! (Toddler sleep)
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CesareBorgiasUnicornMask · 21/06/2017 00:33
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