I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this but as a 30 year old mother I'm still finding myself frustrated with sibling jealousy. I get this is a thing when you're kids but am I the only one that still feels it now? My parents treat my sister so differently, she can do no wrong in their eyes. It's one rule for her and another for me and it really fucking hurts me. She's always been priority even since we were kids and I keep going round in circles trying to work out what I did that was so wrong. She is the eldest and I'm the middle child. I was never that unruly as a teenager, the odd night out drinking with friends but you'd think I was a full blown party animal the way my mum talks about my teen years. I've never asked for anything and have always worked hard since I was 16. The relationship has been far more strained recently since DD arrived, I think mainly because I see DD and think I could never treat her like that. Everything is always to suit them which frustrates me and why we sometimes clash. So when they do a big family dinner once a month say, it's always 7-8pm- a time they know I can never make because DD is in bed then, if this is disrupted DD is up all night and they say well that's when it works for everyone else i.e. My sister.... I get the world doesn't revolve around me but surely one time out of several they can do an earlier time or a lunch time thing at the weekend. They only want to see DD if they can hold her, never want to go anywhere on a walk so I can chat with them, there's always an excuse. They're never straight with me, even if I probe and call them out on it. For example recently they went to watch my sister in the London marathon, spent a whole day walking around London, jumping around in videos and posing in pics, but won't join me for a walk In a beautiful place 5 mins away from where We both live because my mum "has bad knees". It's a bloody 45 minute walk at best! Sorry for the rant, I think I just feel like it's gotten so bad now I don't know how to move forward. I really love my parents and wish they would be more honest with me. Do I just grow a pair of lady balls and get on with it? AIBU to be upset about this?
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sassylocks · 12/06/2017 20:23
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