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AIBU or does this look like my husband has contacted an escort for sex??

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FeellikeLTB Fri 09-Jun-17 20:23:21

Sorry for rambling but I'm shaking and fuming right now.

Hubby came home today from working abroad and I've just seen this screenshot in his IPad gallery. (Not snooping, daughter and I were scrolling through pics on there from when we last visited)
We are at his mothers for the night and it's the first time he's seen her in 10 months so I don't want to make a scene.
I have confronted him and at first he looked confused like I was showing him a picture of a fucking dog with 3 heads and said "I don't know" hmm then he said "it's a long story". I told him I didn't want to hear it and I wanted him to drive us home after we'd eaten and he could stay at his mums.
He's now gone upstairs in his old bedroom because he's tired from the flight, bless him angry And I'm sat downstairs with his mum and sister who hardly speak English entertaining our 6 year old daughter.
I want to smother him with a pillow but I'm not insured to drive the car.
So AIBU to think this is him looking for a shag while he's working away?
And what should I do?

PicardsCombOver Fri 09-Jun-17 20:25:50

Can you drive DD and yourself home OP? I don't blame you for wanting to leave. brew

PrivetDrive24 Fri 09-Jun-17 20:26:02

Tbh it looks exactly like that. Sorry OP flowers

Trifleorbust Fri 09-Jun-17 20:28:14

Sadly I would say so, yes flowers

Fauchelevent Fri 09-Jun-17 20:29:18

Exactly what you think.

stella23 Fri 09-Jun-17 20:29:25

His reaction is suspicious, how far away from home are you? He counting on your resonableness to not make a fuss

PinkyandtheBrainyOne Fri 09-Jun-17 20:30:15

Not defending him; but why would he screenshot his own conversation? Is that something people do? confused

FeellikeLTB Fri 09-Jun-17 20:30:47

Horrible bastard I'm so angry I was looking forward to seeing him too. I can't drive as I've left my car at home and he's got a hire car so I'm not insured to drive it. Im sat here in the kitchen like a twat talking about all the things we can do whilst he's home for a couple of weeks. confused

MrsTerryPratchett Fri 09-Jun-17 20:30:49

It looks like that. It also looks like he's given himself thinking time to work out his excuses. Go home and get your ducks in a row.

Tiredemma Fri 09-Jun-17 20:32:02

How far away from home are you?

FeellikeLTB Fri 09-Jun-17 20:32:42

Not too far from home, we could get a taxi really but it would cost around £40

I was wondering why it was screenshot Pinky hmm

DubiousCredentials Fri 09-Jun-17 20:32:52

I agree it looks dodgy but not sure why he'd have a screenshot of the conversation? Also it's dated last August - but that's irrelevant I suppose.

flowers

Tiredemma Fri 09-Jun-17 20:33:10

Get a taxi home.

MrsTerryPratchett Fri 09-Jun-17 20:33:46

Where was he last August?

FeellikeLTB Fri 09-Jun-17 20:34:57

Yes I noted the date, I've just gone back to whatsapp convo with him on that that date...and it shows there was a massive delay in a reply from him to a message from me. And when he did reply he was extra nice

PinkyandtheBrainyOne Fri 09-Jun-17 20:35:04

Is it possible a friend sent it to him through Facebook or some other instant messenger and he saved it? I've got conversations a friend had with his partner saved to my phone that I didn't even realise were there until I started browsing through my photos.

GlitteryPenguin Fri 09-Jun-17 20:35:22

Could he have the screenshot to have the address to hand? If there was an innocent reason I feel like he would have come up with the truth on the spot... I'm sorry OP. sad Could you spare the money for a taxi?

user1488122513 Fri 09-Jun-17 20:35:45

Looks like he has a lot of explaining to do. I'd ask to see his bank records and see if the money was/has in the past been taken out.

FeellikeLTB Fri 09-Jun-17 20:35:45

He was away in August, exactly near the address noted on the conversation angry

FeellikeLTB Fri 09-Jun-17 20:37:10

Sorry if I'm not keeping up with everyone I'm trying to multitask

happypoobum Fri 09-Jun-17 20:37:20

Get a taxi home. Then bag up all his stuff and send it to his mums.

Cheating bastard.

Maybe STI check up for you too sad flowers

tillytown Fri 09-Jun-17 20:38:32

He has gone to bed right, so he isn't going to talk to you tonight. Get a taxi and go home flowers

FeellikeLTB Fri 09-Jun-17 20:38:35

I can spare the money for taxi but I kind of want to hear what he comes up with, I've checked his browsing history and it was cleared a couple of weeks ago

jensterr Fri 09-Jun-17 20:38:48

Oh love sad doesn't look great. Get yourself home, if you can.

LanaKanesLeftNippleTassle Fri 09-Jun-17 20:39:07

Re: The screenshot thing.

My tablet has a button on the side which does screenshots, there are about 20 of the bloody things in my photos, it happens when I pick it up by the side.

So it's possible it was accidental and he didn't notice.

Sorry OP it don't look good. flowers

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