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AIBU?

To breastfeed 2 year old DD in public?

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user1495490253 · 06/06/2017 17:07

When she can't be calmed with food or drink or cuddles?

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Isadora2007 · 06/06/2017 17:08

No yanbu

At all.

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Chewie198686 · 06/06/2017 17:08

YANBU

Some people won't like it.

Balls to some people.

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glitterglitters · 06/06/2017 17:11

YANBU

Anybody who has any issue with it is BVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVU

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user1495490253 · 06/06/2017 17:12

Thanks. Got some comments from idiots and doubting whether AIBU to follow my gut as a mum.

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justkeepswimmingg · 06/06/2017 17:12

Not wrong with that OP, you got to do what you got to do.

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Nodney · 06/06/2017 17:12

I always did if I needed to. No one ever even noticed never mind complained. Go for it - I think it ought to be a common sight, if women want to.

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Cadenza1818 · 06/06/2017 17:13

Nowt wrong with breastfeeding but for comfort I would say yabu. It's food, treat it as such. If she's hungry go for it

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mygorgeousmilo · 06/06/2017 17:13

Calmed why? I couldn't care less who breastfeeds where, and always did myself - but why does there need to be some kind of emotional crutch for 2yo just out and about?

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Ellisandra · 06/06/2017 17:13

I fed my 4yo in public for no better reason than she asked.
Fuck everyone else - 2 is tiny!

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glitterglitters · 06/06/2017 17:13

Teething? Anxious nature? Slightly poorly? Scared of something?

Does it matter?

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fluffandsnuff · 06/06/2017 17:14

YANBU- I might give you a strange look (in my head) if I saw you but I need to give my own head a wobble- it's my problem not yours.

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kaytee87 · 06/06/2017 17:15

Nowt wrong with breastfeeding but for comfort I would say yabu. It's food, treat it as such.

What a load of bollocks, nothing wrong with bf for comfort if mum and baby/toddler are happy with that. Could be any number of reasons a toddler might need comforted.

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TestingTestingWonTooFree · 06/06/2017 17:16

If I noticed, I'd think hmm, and then remind myself of the WHO guideline to bf to 2. I think I'd be more likely to notice your screaming toddler or be trying to sort out my own

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cookiefiend · 06/06/2017 17:17

YANBU- I still feed DD age 3.5. Not often in public, but would if required. Some children have teddys, others have dummies or blankets. Comfort your child as you like.

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RhinestoneCowgirl · 06/06/2017 17:17

With baby 2 I got a lot better at not giving a fuck about bf in public, she went on to feed until 4yrs.

Carry on OP, bf is a great way to calm a baby or toddler Smile

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ShowOfHands · 06/06/2017 17:17

Feed away. I'd be nothing but happy too see a bfing 2yo.

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clumsyduck · 06/06/2017 17:18

I didn't breastfeed at all and definitely don't think yabu

People are so weird sometimes !!

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BabyLedWhining · 06/06/2017 17:19

Babies feed for comfort and they are supposed to. 2 is still a baby. It's not the same as offering chocolate.

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HerOtherHalf · 06/06/2017 17:20

Is it the breast feeding or the age? Either way, I don't understand why this would be an issue. If people are fragile about boobs being discretely used for their primary purpose that's their problem surely.

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BabyLedWhining · 06/06/2017 17:20

Two is still so young is your two year old particularly massive op? Mine could all pass for three 3 1/2 at that age.

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jaggythistle · 06/06/2017 17:23

Yanbu

I found it especially helpful if they'd decided to fall on their head in public and were a bit hysterical too...

cadenza toddlers don't really feed for hunger like babies I don't think. It's mostly comfort, helping to sleep etc. The same reason as many toddlers have a bottle or dummy (a replica boob) in fact. .. Wink

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Waddlelikeapenguin · 06/06/2017 17:23

YANBU
I've fed all of mine in public at that age & older. I have had a few stupid comments but you get idiots that want to comment on all sorts. It suits me & my babies so sod them!

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Waddlelikeapenguin · 06/06/2017 17:25

Oh & with my first i discovered ther is far more of a scene if you try putting them off (with cuddles/food) when they want to BF. Far less for anyone to notice if you just BF on first request!

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user1495490253 · 06/06/2017 17:26

BabyLed no tiny with baby hair! Could pass for 18 months.

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BabyLedWhining · 06/06/2017 17:28

Oh yes good point about the dummy. I always forget that. You get so used to then you don't think about it.

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