My house is never a mess, and I take pride in organisation and I'm a bit of a classic decor lover... I love it.
DS1 is due in November. I'm getting varied comments about never being able to keep my house tidy once DS arrives. Similar to this, I have a lot of people laugh at me and make snidey comments when I dare mention (after being pressed), about birth plan, of which includes natural birthing strategies with gas and air as an aid. Because how dare I have a single plan
Bit of background. I took on a DC of 1 week until he was 4 months old a few years back. It's a personal, family issue, but my house was not a mess. It was trickier but also therapeutic.
I have never, ever dared mention cleaning or anything to anyone. If someone has a messy house, so what? Maybe instead of cleaning to a photo standard, they watch a box set etc. It doesn't bother me and I don't think any less of anyone who isn't exactly tidy.
However, I'm quite sick of friends and family coming over and making comments of how I'll be joining them and their messy houses very soon.
Yes, sometimes things won't be so great but that's fine! I have a tiny baby. But, I'll still make the effort as I did looking after an infant before.
Yes, birth plans often don't go to plan. That's no reason not to have an idea of what I want, is it? I won't put myself down if it goes tits up. My body is amazing regardless.
AIBU here to tell people straight next time? It's turning into more than the odd comment.
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To say yes, I CAN have a tidy home and a DC?
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VincentIsGodly · 04/06/2017 22:22
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04/06/2017 22:37
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