Hello!
I am looking more of an advice on the things that are happening to me in the coming months and I am wondering if I am cutting it close or have too many things planned too closely? I think they're all doable but is there something that I'm missing out?
Forgive me if this is not the right topic to put under.
I am 30 weeks pregnant and will be going on my maternity when I am at 38 weeks. My due date is 7th August.
I have recently sold my 2 bed property with the estimated exchange of contract on 20th August. My DM will be staying with me and my DH from 6th August onwards to help me out with things.
So it is all fine and dandy there so far.
We've also have our offer accepted in a 3/4 bed property within the same city (about 40 minutes drive away). The property we're purchasing is chain free and we think the exchange of contract will be around or after the exchange of contract of our property as we're using the same funds for down payment.
Now, my DH has arranged for his DM and step sis to stay with us during August bank holiday for a week, in the new house if we've already moved by then.
I know this may sound unfair but I am not too pleased about it as we'll have 4 adults, 1 child and 1 newborn in a 3/4 bed house. (Fourth room is next to kitchen so it's going to be more of a playroom/home office rather than a proper guest room). I said unfair because how can I say okay to my DM but not his DM? To be fair, my DM will be here solely to help care for me and the baby (yes, I may be precious but really have no idea what I'm doing as this is my first child). I feel uncomfortable with his DM and his DSSis will be more of our guests where we would need to cook, clean, find activity for them to do while they're here.
The baby also may not arrive on 7th and may well be 2 weeks late and I'm worried I may not be the best company then as I might be a sleep walking cow for my baby.
Am I being unreasonable to not want DH's DM & DSSis to live with us for a week with a potentially 2 weeks old baby? Or am I being a precious flower and it will all be okay since I have my DM to help out anyway?
Sorry for the long post! And any advice is most welcome!
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Janeinthemiddle · 31/05/2017 20:23
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