Bare with me on this because I will have to tell the back story in order for it to make sense.
When I was pregnant with my first DC, my Aunt had very opinionated ideas about what my DH and I should be doing - for example she thought it disgusting that we found out the sex of the baby, she didn't want us to tell her DD (my cousin) as it would ruin it for her so therefore tried to ban us from announcing on Facebook to friends what we were expecting, she wanted to be the first to visit me in the hospital after I had given birth (I was out within 12 hours of giving birth so couldn't anyway). Then to top it all off when she found out she couldn't come to the hospital she requested that she be at our house when we arrived home. I got home from hospital to find my Aunt, her DD and her DD's best friend in my house all waiting to hold our newborn. I was absolutely knackered and just wanted to be on my own with my DH and new baby. So I have a lot of resentment about that.
Fast forward 5 years and her DD got pregnant. Everything was different for her - she was "allowed" to find out the sex and announce it, her DD was the one to dictate who she had to visit her in hospital and in what order etc. Her DD has been home from hospital for 5 days and we haven't been asked to visit the baby. When questioned when we can visit, we were told that her DD was not up to visitors - fair enough, I understand despite being narked that they were al waiting at my house when I arrived home.
Today I see on Facebook that a friend (not a close friend I might add) of my cousin has seen the new baby and has posted pictures all over Facebook of my cousin posing with the baby. So I've seen the baby for the first time on a Facebook post.
AIBU to be really fucking upset that they treated me so badly throughout my preganancy by dictating to me when they would see my baby etc but now the table has turned she's allowed non close family members to meet the baby (despite telling us she was not up to visitors) and post pics on Facebook before me or my family have even set eyes on him?!
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To be really effed off that the baby is on Facebook?
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Mummagrizzlebear · 31/05/2017 13:02
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