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DHs questionable Twitter searches

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NurseScorne Fri 26-May-17 11:08:28

Would this bother you? DH has barely any sex drive. We last had sex on our anniversary in Paris a month ago.

I noticed this morning that his last searches on Twitter was "naked Snapchat" and "naked Milf".

With this in mind I checked his Facebook search history to find that he's deleted it all. He has never deleted it before.

Should I be bothered? i have no problem with porn but when he doesn't want to shag me infind it rather offensive that he's looking at getting off on "naked milfs" on the internet.

Also, at the beginning of our relationship (5 years ago) I found that he was on dating sites and chatting to other women (and trying to arrange dates) but as I said, that was right at the start of our relationship and as far as I know, he's not done it since but still - the paranoia has stuck.

HildaOg Fri 26-May-17 11:16:06

Maybe he's trying to get turned on? You can still like looking while not having the energy or inclination for sex.

The naked searches wouldn't bother me in the context of him wanting or not wanting sex. The lack of sex is the issue, that's what's upsetting you and to sort it out you need to know why he doesn't want sex. There may be a medical or psychological problem, he may be getting it elsewhere or he may not fancy you anymore.

Find out the root cause and go from there.

NurseScorne Fri 26-May-17 13:37:46

I've asked him and he says there is no issue about sex. He denies there is a problem.

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