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myoriginal3 Thu 25-May-17 23:11:13

I've been through a hell of a lot including rape by some random bastard and I'm still here keeping going.

He's being sentenced tomorrow hopefully. It was adjourned twice for lack of paperwork.

I'm still hanging in here.

Ellisandra Thu 25-May-17 23:13:38

Good luck for tomorrow! flowers
Hope the sentencing goes ahead.
I'm sure you're doing well - posting coherently when I'd be a bag of gibbering nerves tell me that!

myoriginal3 Thu 25-May-17 23:14:40

I feel like falling apart but I'm still alive, still cognisant and still aware. I haven't had a breakdown (I thought I might). I'm so grateful to just be sane tonight.

Crunchymum Thu 25-May-17 23:15:37

Hope the cunt gets what he deserves.

and hope my language doesn't offend

myoriginal3 Thu 25-May-17 23:16:38

Thank you Ellisandra. I was just talking to myself for a while there.

myoriginal3 Thu 25-May-17 23:19:01

Crunchymum - that and bastard are what I call him.

Ellisandra Thu 25-May-17 23:39:31

Ha! I also typed cunt but deleted it as not everyone likes to use the word!

Bet he's shaking like a shitting dog tonight, unable to sleep wink

isupposeitsverynice Thu 25-May-17 23:42:13

Nice to hear about a successful conviction! Yes you are doing well and you will continue to do well I'm sure. I hope you've got some good support around.

TestingTestingWonTooFree Thu 25-May-17 23:43:25

Hope the sentence brings you some peace.

Happyfeet1972 Thu 25-May-17 23:43:41

Well done for hanging in there OP, imagine it's hard. Good luck for tomorrow. Hope he gets put away for a long time.

Ellisandra Thu 25-May-17 23:44:14

Thing is, whatever happens tomorrow, you're in a better place than him.

If he isn't sentenced yet - well, the cunt has still been convicted, and it just means he has to worry for longer what will happen. Whereas yes, you'll want to closure I expect - but you can still move forward. He's in limbo, not you.

And if the sentence is lighter than it should be? It's still a conviction, and a sentence. Again, you can move forward, he's the one that is going to have his life turned upside down again tomorrow.

cakeginflowers whatever works for you.

And if I have any mind control powers at all, cunt's going done for a long time tomorrow. I am sending out rot in hell arsehole vibes wink

Ellisandra Fri 26-May-17 09:00:59

Good luck today x

Comedyboobs Fri 26-May-17 09:05:15

All the best for today flowers

TwitterQueen1 Fri 26-May-17 09:08:28

A new day, a new start for you OP. You're bloody marvellous! Onwards and upwards.

ChildishGambino Fri 26-May-17 09:08:43

Good for you. Hope they throw the book at him. flowers

MatildaTheCat Fri 26-May-17 09:21:03

I'm thinking of you. I'm in a slightly similar position as been through a trial and now defendant is appealing so although I was successful I still cannot move on with my life. With trials you spend so much time in limbo and loose so much control.

I hope he gets all he deserves ( and I believe prison isn't a nice place for rapists).

I also hope that you will find yourself again, learn to live and enjoy your life and refuse to be defined by the actions of another, incredibly evil person.

Give yourself time and space to recover and be so very, very proud that you have come this far. flowers

Gooseygoosey12345 Fri 26-May-17 09:23:09

I think cunt is the only appropriate word here. Also some praise is appropriate for the OP! Well done for keeping yourself together flowers

jollyjester Fri 26-May-17 09:27:27

Good luck today OP flowers

xmaspost Sat 27-May-17 11:35:34

Good luck OP. I hope everything works out for you. I also sincerely hope that the rapist lives through a hellish time in prison. I wish him the worst.

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