I was out with my DM and DSis yesterday and whilst DM popped to the loo DSis said 'just thought I'd remind you that is it DM and DFs wedding anniversary on Friday, I've texted other 2 siblings to remind them too.' I was a bit because I wasn't sure what she expected from me. It's not a milestone anniversary and I've never given them a card/gift before.
Anyway I saw DM today and she said 'It's our wedding anniversary tomorrow and your two DSis' are taking us out to dinner.' I said that it sounded lovely (fyi I live far away so wouldn't have been involved in the planning or expected to go) but I now wonder if they're expecting something from me. I remember when it was my eldest Dsis' wedding anniversary my other DSis mentioned something about giving them a gift.
So! AIBU to not give a gift for a family members wedding anniversary? Is this a thing I'm supposed to do and didn't realise? If I'm honest I don't really see the point. It's not my husband/wife and I wouldn't expect it if I was married. If it was a milestone anniv I probably would but every year?!
FWIW I always send my DM flowers and a card on mothers day and always try and give her a thoughtful gift for her birthday and Christmas. Also I am not married as DP and I have no interest in getting married, but I have no problem with people who do choose to wed.
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To not give a gift for family members wedding anniversaries?
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GimbleInTheWabe · 25/05/2017 10:40
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