I am in my late sixties,retired, no money worries and recently widowed. My youngest daughter is having her first baby at the end of the year. I am delighted ,and of my four children she is the one who lives nearest to me.We recently had a conversation and she brought up the subject of child care. She seemed upset when I said that although I would always be there in an emergency,and be happy to babysit...I was not going to be relied upon for child care on specific days every week. I would also be happy to contribure towards nursery fees. I returned from abroad 10 years ago,with a very sick husband. The last few years have been exhausting,with me providing care 24/7. Sadly my husband died last year,and I am just beginning to get my life back. Some friends are in agreement with my decision and others think I am being selfish. Am I being unreasonable?
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