DP and I have mismatched financial values and it's causing us loads of problems.
DP is a spender and I am not and I spend a lot of my time trying to stem to dam of the issues he causes. For example he recently changed jobs with a massive pay cut and this month has been really tricky as he didn't get paid for a full month last month as had just started the job. He knew it would be tough- we have had to dip into very depleted savings already- and yet while I have been scrabbling about feeding the kids from the back of the cupboard & taking in lunches to work etc, he has been withdrawing cash out of the bank & buying lunch for himself as he's too lazy/ unimaginative to check the cupboards and make something.
I am fuming about it- he'd utterly useless with money and selfish.
I've had years of his inability to manage money and it's wrecked our finances.
Aibu to be pissed off and think it's becoming a relationship deal breaker
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Mismatched financial values
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Happyhappyveggie · 24/05/2017 18:04
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24/05/2017 19:16
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