About a month ago, me and my sister had a big blow up row. It escalated because I told her she was not a ordinary 23 year old, - which she isn't. She lives with my mum and sponges off her something rotten - won't eat food from Asda, makes my mum get her food from M&S, doesn't lift a finger around the flat, makes no effort to meet anyone or make a life for herself. She isn't depressed, she is just bone idle.
Recently our grandmother has begun to sadly lose her sight. My sister has done absolutely nothing. It is me who has been calling her, visiting her, shopping for her, and I have a full time job and a 6yo ds as well as 3 dsc.
My mum has been resolutely in my sisters corner throughout this. She's always had much more in common with sister than with me. Today I asked her if I could pop in to see her. She said not until my sister was out as she'd promised her that she wouldn't let me in her flat while my sister was in.
I was really upset about this, I've told her that until she can treat me like a person instead of a contagious disease, she will be having minimal contact with me or the dc.
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To think that my mother should not be picking sides?
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foursthescore · 24/05/2017 10:02
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