I'm genuinely interested to know whether I am right or sticking my nose where it shouldn't be.
Between us, dh and I have 4 dc - my ds who is 6, and dsd 8, dss1 7, and dss2 4.
Dh ex wife has main custody of the dsc. We have them eow and one week day.
She also has 2 cats. I believe that dss2 is allergic to fleabites. Everytime he comes to us he has a lot, however today it honestly bought tears to my eyes. At least 40 bites, massive and red raw. Poor little mite was beside himself. Sent dh out for cream.
I told dh he should tell his exw that dss2 is staying with us until she has treated her cats. He said no way, he doesn't want to rock the boat. He isn't going to mention anything to her.
I'm disappointed in him. If ds arrived to me from my exh looking like that we'd be devastated. We also have a cat but treat her monthly with treatment.
I hate the thought of dss2 going back there tonight.
Aibu? Should I butt out?
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AIBU?
To think dh should be more concerned about dss2s fleabites?
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foursthescore · 23/05/2017 17:10
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