Maybe IAU because past events have altered my perception but I do find it an odd saying, none the less.
I have lost pregnancies, some later, some earlier.
Despite what people may think, I believe pregnant women are equally just as much of a Mum as someone with a child physically outside of them.
What does a Mum do? She...
Puts her child's best interests at heart. Whilst pregnant, you make a conscious effort to put aside bad substances (if you take them), and ensure you're safe so baby is safe.
Makes sure they're healthy - Whilst pregnant, women rethink what they're eating and make a conscious effort to take the right vitamins etc.
Looks after their wellbeing and guards their safety, often going the extra mile if need be - Many women are often spending hours in maternity units/early pregnancy units. All to ensure their baby is safe and well, and many a time to we don't leave until the appropriate plans and care have been put into place.
Worry - Need I say more on this one?
Correct me if I'm wrong, but do we not do these things as a pregnant women?
Did I not spend endless amounts of times during pregnancy, taking folic acid to nurture them, avoiding alcohol/more than a few units ever so often so the baby can thrive?
Do we not financially save and sometimes splurge on what the baby needs? Just like our DC next to us?
Please tell me your thoughts!
If you are a pregnant woman, I for one think you're every bit a Mum as someone who's just had a baby. If you've gone through a loss, I know you pined and hoped for that baby. You are a Mum, you are amazing
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To hate the phrase 'Mum-To-Be'?
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ZofloraIsShite · 22/05/2017 16:02
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